Couple problems ?
Your think that everythings had been said, shouted out, even whispered and cried ?
All your forces seems down, nothing more to say and to do ?
You think all your messages didn’t came through, weren’t heard and understood ? You definitely do not longer speak the same language ? Or in mixed cultured couples, that’s taken for confirmation that you do not understand you any more.
We think to know what the other will answer and what he/she thinks ?
So I can share my experence of this phenomen : when a third person listens and ask questions to understand the situation of you both, the ‘reality’ of evry partner reappears and finally a new exchange will be possible. Coming down to speak together and making decisions will be easier and clearer.
This could be a chance for a new start.
Ok, or maybe not to stay together, but to understand what happens, what is, instead of guess and speculations, coming out of frustrations and of no-real-talking.
Take the chance – and call 😉
It's too late Carole King
Stayed in bed all mornin' just to pass the time. There's somethin' wrong here, there can be no denyin'. One of us is changin', or maybe we've just stopped tryin'.
And it's too late, baby now, it's too late, Though we really did try to make it.
Somethin' inside has died, and I can't hide, And I just can't fake it, oh, no, no.
It used to be so easy, livin' here with you. You were light and breezy, an' I knew just what to do. Now you look so unhappy, and I feel like a fool.
And it's too late, baby now, it's too late, Though we really did try to make it. Somethin' inside has died, and I can't hide, And I just can't fake it, oh, no, no.
There'll be good times again for me and you, But we just can't stay together; don't you feel it too? Still I'm glad for what we had and how I once loved you.
And it's too late, baby now, it's too late, Though we really did try to make it. (we can't make it) Somethin' inside has died, and I can't hide, And I just can't fake it, oh, no, no, no, no, no, no.
It's too late baby, it's too late now darling It's too late.
Text : Carole King / Toni Stern
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